That, anon, is the question of the hour.
If we didn’t both want kids… yes. But he is really concerned with our current level of miscommunication if we were to add children into the mix, and we both really want them. Actually, there are also a lot of other factors as well, but that’s a big one we’ve been talking about lately.
We ARE talking. He is the kind of guy that takes ages to think through decisions anyway, and with the added complication of being from different countries and cultures (easy example: where do we live and how can he make money if we choose America?)… Actually, being together a year isn’t a super long time, but we are both old enough and our “clocks are ticking” and all that. And I have to decide to stay here or go home based on our future. So.
But we love each other. He’s a special one, for sure, and there is no one else I want to be with more than I want to be with him. That may or may not be enough for us~ we are both pretty rational people.
I guess… we’ll see.